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Lynette Paczkowski.


Lynette Paczkowski



Lynette Paczkowski is a pragmatic and trusted advisor with extensive experience advocating for her clients at trial and appellate courts across Massachusetts. Clients rely on her to protect their interests during stressful, challenging times. Lynette’s empathy for her clients’ situations allows her to understand their priorities and concerns and develop a strategy around those goals. She routinely guides and helps individuals navigate prenuptial agreements, divorces, child custody issues, and other domestic relations disputes. With an extensive and varied litigation background, she also counsel and advises clients and appears in Probate & Family Court to represent them in Trust disputes, estate administration claims, and related matters. Given her foundation and background in business litigation, construction litigation, and defense of tort-related claims, she is uniquely suited to also represent her clients in Superior Court and Land Court navigating related breach of fiduciary duty claims and property disputes.

“Clients appreciate my ability to adapt,” Lynette notes, “and to adopt approaches that balance their desired outcomes with other case- or situation-specific considerations.” Additionally, with experience on both sides of the docket, she better understands how the other side thinks and is particularly adept at using that knowledge to assess the strengths and weaknesses of both parties’ positions.

While Lynette frequently finds herself writing Separation Agreements, Stipulations for Judgments and Settlement Agreements, she is not afraid to take a case to trial, and has significant experience utilizing fact and expert witnesses to support her clients’ positions.

Besides work

Lynette flexes her creative muscles in creative writing classes and is an avid concert- and theater-goer. She also enjoys cheering on the WooSox at Polar Park and playing a round of golf.


  • Commissioner, Massachusetts Judicial Nominating Commission (2023 – present)
  • Chair, Board of Directors, Big Brothers Big Sisters of Central Mass & MetroWest (2023 – present)
  • Executive Council, National Conference of Bar Presidents (2023 – present)
  • Co-Chair, Ad Hoc Community Engagement Committee, Worcester County Bar Association (2023 – present)
  • President, Notre Dame Club of Worcester County (2022 – present)
  • Board Member, Community Legal Aid (2022 – present)
  • Member, Ambassador Circle, The Hanover Theatre for the Performing Arts (2021 – present)
  • Member, Massachusetts Bar Association (2020 – present)
  • Board Member, Big Brothers Big Sisters of Central Mass & MetroWest (2019 – present)
  • Fellow, National Conference of Bar Presidents (2019 – present)
  • Community Legal Aid Access to Justice Campaign Leadership Committee (2012 – present; Chair of 2022-2023 Campaign)
  • Member, Worcester County Bar Association (2005 – present)


  • Vice-Chair, Board of Directors, Big Brothers Big Sisters of Central Mass & MetroWest (2021-2023)
  • Region 10 Delegate, House of Delegates, Massachusetts Bar Association (2020-2022)
  • Fellow, Construction Lawyers Society of America (2018-2023)
  • President, Worcester County Bar Association (2018-2019)
  • Building Women in Construction Committee, Associated General Contractors (2016-2018)
  • Communications Director, Notre Dame Club of Worcester County (2015-2022)
  • Development Committee, The Hanover Theatre for the Performing Arts (2015-2016)
  • Executive Committee, Worcester County Bar Association (2013-2020)
  • President, Young Professional Women’s Association (2013-2014)
  • Vice President, Young Professional Women’s Association (2012-2013)
  • Board Member, Young Professional Women’s Association (2011-2014)
  • Founding Member, Young Professional Women’s Association (2011)
  • Co-Chair, Young Lawyers Section, Worcester County Bar Association (2010-2013)


  • “Top Women of Law,” Massachusetts Lawyers Weekly (2023)
  • Named to Massachusetts Super Lawyers list for Family Law (2021-2023)
  • Named to Massachusetts Super Lawyers Rising Stars list (2013-2020)
  • Worcester Business Journal’s “40 Under 40” award (2012)

Articles + Talks



  • “Demystifying the Judicial Application Process,” First Monday Educational Series, Worcester County Bar Association, November 6, 2023

Bar Admissions

  • Massachusetts
  • New York
  • The United States District Court for the District of Massachusetts
  • The United States District Court for the Southern District of New York
  • The United States District Court for the Eastern District of New York
  • The United States Court of Appeals for the First Circuit


  • J.D., Boston College Law School
  • B.A., magna cum laude, University of Notre Dame

Vacating findings of abuse by DCF

When DCF was called on one of Lynette’s clients, the timing was suspect: efforts to amicably reach a separation agreement had just fallen apart, and the spouse had filed for divorce. Nevertheless, DCF opened an investigation and issued a finding of abuse relating to an incident that had allegedly occurred some eight years prior. Lynette represented the client at the Fair Hearing, following which DCF reversed its decision. “DCF workers are good people trying to do the right thing, but sometimes the evidence and the facts don’t support their findings.” Lynette was a zealous advocate for her client, pointing out where the findings did not conform with the Department’s regulations and policies.

Winning payment in an arbitration for an architect

Lynette obtained an arbitration award in favor of an architecture firm, which had not been paid in full for work performed on a project. The other side argued that her client had actually been overpaid, claiming that the architect exceeded the authorized scope of work on the project. Lynette successfully demonstrated, primarily through invoices and copies of payments, that the owner knew or should have known the full scope of work being performed and billed, despite not having a signed contract or purchase order for the work in question. “Sometimes it’s not as simple as having a bulletproof contract. Sometimes you have to really dig into the documents and piece together what happened in order to prevail.”

Other experience

Family law and probate litigation

  • Counsels and advises clients regarding division of assets, including whether inherited assets should be treated as marital or separate property
  • Tried issues regarding where her client’s minor children should attend school after the divorcing spouse relocated to a different school district and sought to transfer the children to a school in that district
  • Defended contempt actions brought by former spouse arising out of client’s obligation to remove him from the mortgage on the former marital home
  • Prosecuted contempt action to enforce terms of Separation Agreement
  • Successfully resolved competing complaints for modification involving removal of minor child to another state and resulting effects on child support, parenting time, and related issues
  • Received a favorable decision from the Appeals Court affirming two extensions of a c. 209A Restraining Order issued against the divorcing spouse by the Probate & Family Court. We took the case on appeal, submitted a brief on behalf of our client, and argued the case before a panel of three Appeals Court justices, persuading the panel that the defendant’s due process rights were not violated and that the Trial Court’s determinations should not be disturbed
  • Represents clients in modification actions arising out of increases and decreases in salary or earning capacity and employment/unemployment issues

Land use and construction

  • Defends general contractors and subcontractors against contract, warranty and negligence claims
  • Pursues payment and enforcement of mechanic’s liens on behalf of designers, contractors and subcontractors
  • Reviews contracts and provides contractors with risk assessments and advice regarding contract provisions, including termination and indemnity clauses
  • Drafts and revises contracts for contractors and owners
  • Advises property owners with respect to payment claims and seeking damages for incomplete and defective work
  • Successfully resolved negligence, M.G.L. c. 142A, and M.G.L. c. 93A claims on behalf of contractor
  • Represented billboard owners in successful appeal of building inspector’s order to lower the height of the sign, briefing and arguing the case (regarding the applicability and interpretation of the town’s zoning by-laws) through to the Appeals Court
  • Represented lake residents pursuing prescriptive easements in response to property owner’s declaratory judgment/title/trespass action concerning a right-of-way utilized by the residents for walking, running and bicycling around the lake
  • Represented utility company in negligence/wrongful death action after detail officer was struck by a vehicle at the company’s work site
  • Represented utility company in negligence action after worker suffered electrical contact injury during maintenance work on electrical infrastructure at office complex
  • Successfully defended claims in excess of $2 million brought by a designer-builder against the owner of a senior living facility
  • Assisted franchisee in resolving various disputes and bringing construction project through completion
  • Represented private school in abutting property owner’s appeals of Conservation Commission and Zoning Board of Appeals decisions in connection with expansion project
  • Represented utility company in enforcing easement rights against property owners blocking access
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